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                  Today was a hard day. Maxwell and Zara are in an intense
                  bicker mode that I'm not really sure how to break them out of.
                  Maxwell enjoys trolling people and has the same gift that I do
                  in divining what irritates other people. Zara is a self
                  centered whiner who uses her brilliance to manipulate other
                  people to get what she wants. And she has a tenacity which
                  befits her parentage on both sides: Elizabeth Taylor as
                  Cleopatra.
                 
                
                  It was interesting today watching the transition in Mawell
                  from when the two of us were in the car to when the girls
                  joined us. He was two entirely different people. Maxwell and I
                  share logic, humor and a desire to have the most fun possible.
                  He would never even try an appeal to emotion with me because
                  he knows it would fall on deaf ears. But with his mother and
                  sister present, he knows the points to prick them. To his
                  mother he is an adept lawyer, arguing his case for a particular
                  restaurant, activity or other course of action. He has no
                  compunction about bending the truth to fit an emotional narrative
                  that will play well to that audience. In his mother's eyes he
                  can do little wrong and she is a tiger defending him.
                 
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