Saturday Cara surprised me and handed over Zara's passport. It
was such a big surprise because she took me to court in
December to prevent me from taking them to spend Christmas
with family. And until about a week ago she was still pursuing
a case to keep me from traveling with them outside of Norway.
She never wants us to leave, which is disappointing to say the
least. So I make do with an obsessive amount of travel. It's
probably not healthy - I'm running so much to run away from my
problems and running away to other countries to escape them
too. But there is so much of Europe to see, and I have a truly
unique opportunity with my job allowing me to work
asynchronously from anywhere in the world.
Maybe Cara thought she'd successfully defeated my plan to take
them on a trip to Italy for Påskeferie. And she certainly didn't
want their travel ban to continue until summer when she has
travel plans for them. Or maybe it's the thrill of being in
love with her new boyfriend that's softened her up. Who knows?
It still enabled me to get Zara's passport and take the kids
at least sort of to Italy. We flew through Paris as the Notre
Dame burned and on down to Nice. There's almost as many
Italian flags flying here as French ones. And Garibaldi's mom
is buried in the cemetery up on the hill by the Colline du
Château.
This is my first time in France, and I really, really love
being in a country where they expect you to speak their
language. My French is not spectacular (I nearly failed it in
high school), but I've managed to muddle my way through
dozens of conversations now. Maxwell truly has a gift for
languages and can decipher a lot from context. It's quite
amazing. Zara took a year of French in school last year, and
so has a pretty good grasp of the basics but grunts her way
through interactions rather than trying to speak it. Still it
has totally been the broadening of their horizons that I'd
hoped for.
I'm especially excited aout how excited Maxwell has
gotten as the trip has opened up. He was very against it
because it would interfere with his Fortnite gaming, but
acquiesed when I told him he no longer had a choice. He's gone
from a position of being afraid of flying to planning his own
adventures to Poland and the Philippines with friends. Nothing
makes me happier than to see him gain that confidence. I gave
each of the kids a hundred euros for souvenirs, snacks, meals or
whatever and today Maxwell used 19 euros to buy the two of us
a sushi lunch. Sushi lunches have a special place in Maxwell's
life because it's something both I and my dad do with him.
Afterwards he was beaming and crowing about being able to buy
me a sushi lunch. Of course we bothed laughed at the fact that
I'd given him the money before the trip, but we both knew that
it was his now and he had used the power it gave him in an
extremely satisfying way, both gustatorily and mentally.
Zara, of course, has used the money I gave her to buy candy.
That girl has quite the sweet tooth! She was also excited
about the beach from the beginning, because that sort of thing
is more her style. She had great big plans to go out and about
in Nice (and make jokes about how nice it is), but ended up
being a little more timid and wanting to hang out with dad. It
was very sweet, but I'd planned to work while they went off to
the beach. Good thing I get up early! So this afternoon I went
out with them and lounged on the galets by the sea and read
while the two of them invented a game of building cairns. As
they say, it's something like reverse Jenga. It involves
stacking stones until someone makes one fall and looses. Thus
the strategy is to make it dangerous for your opponent. I
played it with them this evening after dinner. Before that,
however, Zara had gone off shopping on her own to avoid sushi,
which she despises. Then I sent them off for a couple hours so
I could get some work done before dinner.
But how did I start off this glorious day? By applying the
same algorithm I do for every European city I visit: get up
early, find a mountain, and go run up it! In this case I had
to run down the beach a ways first and then around the harbor
while I waited for the park to open, but the views and the
history in the Parc du Colline du Château were well worth it.
From the WWII Jewish cemetary, to the incredible views, to the
rats and the amazing flora, to the ruins of a medieval eglise,
to the waterfall and the nice lady who took my picture in
front of it, it was definitely a run to remember. If I did
nothing else in Nice those 13 kilometers would be enough to
treasure the place.